Lolita's Fist

When I said advocating abstinence is punitive to women, he advocated she gets married. #IFailToSeeTheLogic ... A friend says, "What?" .... (I had asked how men could be toxic, this was ignored. No one answered this: #ToxicMasculinity ~ What would #NurturingMasculinity look like? #LearnToDream Let's answer in the positive frame, e.g. Not "There would be no rape", but "Men would seek informed, enthusiastic, consent, and ask what my favorite position is, and we'd do it first, and then he would not demand quid pro quo when I withdraw consent and would not nag me for the quid pro quo, and would wait for me to quo him." If someone goes to the negative answer, please write their answer in the positive form, and multiple rewritings of the negative form are encouraged, so everyone do one. .... Instead, punitive abstinence: ... Is this one of my too-tight sentences again? 🙂 I wonder if this is also the reason why no one has answered my #

Silence quotas. Men speak too much. White people speak too much. By bringing in laws of how much silence is required you will never notice when silence is offered. We cannot be healed by words alone. #MenAreTrash #WhitePeopleAreTrash

What people don't seem to get is that "White Feminism" is feminism  for  white people, and never exclusively feminism  by white people. It's more about who it benefits exclusively than who is perpetuating it exclusively. … a word for the institution we're trying to separate ourselves from." - TheWhistlingFish