Two Weeks (2006)

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People often don't stand up for themselves because they don't say the right words in the moment. Bullies, who get lots of practice, always have the right words. Thus, logic says that if we stood up for ourselves more, the right words will come more easily. People with a bit of power and familiarity with the eccentric processes they preside over, enjoy making us wait and dangle on the end of their inconsiderate and arbitrary rules' strings. Each time we dangle we lose a little confidence in our ability to engage our world.

I always try to be solution oriented when I am asked to do stuff, engagement oriented. I respond, respond, respond. May I be more so, daily.

Authors have the benefit of writing what we wish we had said in the moment. And those are my favorite moments in film. Ben Chaplin is asking, via an unhelpful cashier's microphone, who he has to fuck to get the promised discount on his orange juice.




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